Sunday, May 29, 2011

You are ALWAYS Good Enough

So its been awhile since I actually wrote something of some kind of worth so I figured that since I cant fall asleep I'll write something!

This week I was talking to someone and they were telling me that they feel like they never feel good enough for anyone. I myself have been in that position and all I could really think of to say at that moment is you are better than good enough. Everyone is better than good enough its just hard to see it within yourself. I have this problem majorly. Its a hard thing to get over and deal with. Sometimes in situations like that its because you are better than that person or situation. You are always good enough for whatever (or whomever) you are pursuing. When something doesn't work out its because there is something better out there waiting for you. When a boy walks away its usually because they had to in order for you to have the next boy come along that is so much better for you and treats you better. When a job doesn't work out, its because the right job for you is coming along. Usually a job that has exactly what you are looking for and meets your needs and that you enjoy. When a friend walks away its because they were never your friend in the first place. If someone gets over caring for you in a really short time then they never cared at all. 

Something else I want to touch on is the concept of love. Not like romantic love but more like love for your fellow man. I got to thinking about this because I may or may not have been constantly listening to Bon Jovi's song called What Do You Got? this week. The song is about romantic love which is powerful but the lyrics have this line in the chorus "what do you got if you aint got love? whatever you got it just aint enough." Every person needs love in their lives. Regardless of who they are. They could be the most awful person to walk this earth but they even deserve at least one person love them. Sometimes, one person is all that it takes. If everyone tried to show some love towards someone they don't even know it could make their day. This doesn't mean you have to go hug every random person that you see but just smiling at them or saying hi could make a huge difference in that persons day. Once a person masters the emotion of love, they master all other emotions because without love all other emotions would cease to exist.


By the way, been loving this song a lot lately.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

A word of advice to you my dear bestie: even though you won't be coming down to suu with me, I think it would be a very good thing for you to try moving into
An apartment for the school year. I know it's scary to tackle the big bad world, but if you really want to live life to the fullest you've got to grab it by the horns and face it down. You will learn things about yourself that you can't learn while you're living at home. Trust me on this girl, it would be one of the greatest things you can do for yourself. Think about it, talk with your parents, and don't let your fears and insecurities decide what you do, where you go, or how you feel about yourself. You are powerful and you matter. Love you :)