Okay so Adele has this song Rolling In The Deep (currently #1 in many different countries so if you havent heard it you must be living under a rock) and I've always loved the song but today I listened to it and really listened to it. The lyrics are absolutely incredible. Its the kind of attitude that every girl needs to have after a break up. Yeah its okay to cry over your ex but ultimately we all need to be strong and these lyrics are a perfect example of that. The first verse is truly my favorite
Finally, I can see you crystal clear,
Go ahead and sell me out and a I'll lay your shit bare,
See how I'll leave with every piece of you,
Don't underestimate the things that I will do
If you are offended by swearing I'm sorry about that, its part of the song and eventhough I changed it for my facebook status I just feel like changing it takes away some of the punch to the song.
Anyways, the line out of that verse that I absolutely love is "dont underestimate the things that I will do." To me it is saying okay, you hurt me pretty bad but sitting in the corner of my bedroom isnt going to do me any good so I might as well piss you off by living my life and possibly getting revenge.
Nothing makes and ex angrier than being able to live your life like nothing is wrong. When you show your ex that you are still in love with them and cry over them everyday it just boosts their ego more and shows them they have you whenever they want you. Most women are just seen are trophies or objects and doing this only solidifies your position as an object or trophy. Women are people and deserve to be treated as such.
So, if you went through a break up and are really mad at your ex for whatever and want revenge, just ignore that they exist and continue with your life. There is no better revenge than that. Promise :)
That is my two cents for now. I just really want to write about that because at times I myself have a hard time believing it when I know that its true.
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